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The first thing she said -- "I need a drink"

 "I have invasive ductal carcinoma"-- I imagine her world stopped once she read the results. You know when people mention hearing something traumatic -- they describe zoning out. It's almost like they are there but they aren't really there. When she shared with me, I wanted to cry and not out of sadness, but out of anger, because ---


Who will I drink with now?

I think if I were sad, I'd be acknowledging the fact that my sis was sick-- which nah! Maybe sick in the head, YES! but far from sick. Would we still laugh through it like we've done everything else? Will the one who I've laughed with during some of the hardest times of my life still have the same, "we are going to get through this like we have before" attitude? 2021 I had just had my daughter, adding in another mouth to feed on top of the one I was barely making ends meet for -- I came to the hard truth I could no longer afford to rent my apartment, what did my sister say? Come live with me! I'm tearing up writing this (could be the wine) ... but if you told me my sister's coworkers turned best friend would literally become an extension of me, I'd call bullshit.-- stuff like that doesn't happen to people. Over the last 10 years She's replaced my tears with laughter and a glass of wine more times than I can count so it's only right I do the same for her--- now follow her journey as she kicks Cancer's ass.

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